Thanksgiving Backyard Gatherings: Cozy Fire Pit & Lighting Tips

November 5, 2025

There’s nothing quite like gathering under Oklahoma’s big November sky, savoring crisp air and the company of loved ones. Thanksgiving is the perfect time to extend your celebration from the dining room to a beautifully designed backyard, complete with a glowing fire pit and strategically placed lighting. Whether you’re hosting family from Bixby, welcoming friends from Jenks, or celebrating with neighbors in Broken Arrow, transforming your Tulsa-area yard into a warm, inviting space will create memories that last long after the turkey is gone.


Why a Fire Pit is the Heart of a Tulsa Thanksgiving Gathering


A fire pit is more than just a source of warmth—it’s an Oklahoma tradition. With Tulsa’s brisk but bearable late fall weather, a well-designed fire pit lets you enjoy the outdoors comfortably. Create an atmosphere where stories are shared, marshmallows are toasted, and laughter echoes under the stars. At Native Outdoor Living, we recommend using locally sourced native stone for fire pits, not only to honor Oklahoma’s geological history but also for its durability and authentic beauty.


Fire Pit Design & Placement Tips for Holiday Hosting


Choosing and maintaining the right fire pit makes all the difference for a safe, enjoyable holiday:


- Choose a location at least 10 feet away from structures and overhanging trees to maximize safety.

- Arrange ample and comfortable seating—think weather-resistant sectional sofas or built-in stone benches, accented with chunky throw blankets.

- Consider adding a few side tables for easy pumpkin pie and cider storage.

- Use crushed stone or pavers to define the fire pit area and add a rustic Oklahoma feel.

- Maintain your fire pit by removing ashes and debris before and after each use.


How to Create a Magical Outdoor Ambience with Lighting


The right outdoor lighting transforms your backyard into a magical retreat and greatly extends your Thanksgiving festivity window. String lights draped from a pergola or overhead trees create gentle illumination and a festive mood. Native Outdoor Living specializes in Tulsa-friendly lighting solutions that withstand Oklahoma’s unpredictable climate, from gusty Sapulpa winds to Owasso’s early winter chill.


Key Outdoor Lighting Tips for Tulsa Thanksgiving Gatherings:


- Use LED or solar-powered string lights for energy efficiency and long-lasting glow.

- Add pathway lighting to guide guests safely from the driveway to the backyard.

- Install spotlights to highlight your landscaping, fire pit, or outdoor kitchen features.

- Place waterproof lanterns or battery candles on tables for soft, flickering accents.

- Opt for programmable timer lights to keep your backyard shining without hassle.


Is It Safe to Use a Fire Pit in November in Oklahoma?


It’s a common question as the holiday season approaches: Is it safe to use your fire pit during Oklahoma’s late fall? Absolutely! Fall is one of the best times for fire pit use in Tulsa and the surrounding areas, thanks to cooler temperatures and fewer bugs. Safety should always come first. Choose seasoned firewood for minimal smoke and keep a hose or fire extinguisher handy. Always check local fire bans or advisories before your celebration.


Custom Design for a Connected, Comfortable Experience


A professionally designed outdoor living area blends function with beauty. At Native Outdoor Living, our team carefully selects native materials and plants, ensuring your fire pit and lighting not only reflect local heritage but also endure Tulsa’s seasonal shifts. Our custom hardscaping integrates fire features with patios and walkways, creating seamless spaces perfect for holiday entertaining.


Seasonal Accents and Decor to Complete the Vibe


- Incorporate natural elements like dried grasses, pumpkins, and Oklahoma wildflowers for festive, low-maintenance decor.

- Use weather-resistant pillows and throws in warm fall colors to add comfort and style.

- Set up a hot beverage station with mugs, local apple cider, and cocoa for a welcoming touch.


Gather, Celebrate, and Make This Thanksgiving Unforgettable


This November, make your Tulsa backyard the heart of your Thanksgiving celebration with a cozy fire pit and enchanting lighting from Native Outdoor Living. Let our expertise in landscape design, fire feature installation, and outdoor lighting help you create a sanctuary that invites family and friends to linger long after sunset. Ready to bring your vision to life for the holiday season? Schedule your free consultation today and turn your Oklahoma backyard into a beloved gathering place this Thanksgiving and beyond.

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